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  • 28 February 2013, 20:45

Woman's Diamond Ring Stolen As She Lay Dying

A dying woman had a treasured diamond ring stolen from her finger in the final moments of her life at a hospice.

The gold band was taken from Wendy Dolton's hand as she lay powerless in her bed.

Hours later, the 65-year-old lost her battle with cancer.

The ring was given to Mrs Dolton by her husband to celebrate her 40th wedding anniversary. It was the last gift he gave her before he died nine years ago.

Her son Sean, 46, said: "It's a violation of morality that is just unbelievable. I'm speechless. Whoever did this is absolute scum.

"I saw her at about 6pm on the Wednesday and she had it on and she died at around 5pm on the Thursday. I feel sick to know that someone could do that in the last hours of her life.

"It's not just any ring. It was a 40th anniversary present from my father in the last months of his life, so the value is hugely sentimental.

"The fact that someone could do that to someone when they are at their most vulnerable is unbelievable. She would have been lying there and unable to do anything."

The theft took place at the Pilgrim's Hospice in Canterbury, Kent, between 6pm on February 13 and 6pm the following day.

The chief executive of Pilgrim's Hospice, Steve Auty, said: "Pilgrims Hospices is co-operating fully with the police and I am leading our own internal investigation.

"We are not aware of an incident like this occurring in our three hospices at any time in our 30-plus years history.

"Clearly it is not a situation that we want to occur in our hospices and especially not at such a difficult time for the family members concerned."

He said that there was no evidence to suggest any members of staff were implicated in the theft.

Pc Chris Poulter, of Kent Police, who is investigating the theft, said: "The theft of the ring has caused a great deal of upset for Wendy's family at a time when they are already trying to cope with her sad passing.

"Pilgrim's Hospice has been fully co-operative and our investigation continues. We have already visited some second-hand shops and will continue to make inquiries."

Anyone with information about the theft of the ring, described as a gold band with a large square diamond, is asked to call Kent Police on 101.

what do you think?

first 20 comments

stevie may

10:51am on 28/2/2013

CCTV?

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Emma Allum

11:33am on 28/2/2013

Mmmm, doubtful. They should have records of keyworkers etc that should have been in the room, but I suspect anyone in the building will be investigated. Provided they have a competent signing in method.

Score: 7

Louisa Gieldon

10:11pm on 28/2/2013

It could have been a patient a visitor or someone who just came in and walked around

Score: 5

Malkie Man

11:01am on 28/2/2013

You could count the people on one hand who would have been caring for her or visiting. Find the person then hang him/her. They cant be that hungry

Score: 15

william Baker

11:04am on 28/2/2013

Iv'e seen some stories on here that make me despair but this is a new low. Stealing from a dying person must be the height of depravity. Im sure they will catch this thieving piece of rubbish but lets wait & see what 'sentence' they get.

Score: 20

blue side

11:33am on 28/2/2013

How heartless can only wish the perpetrator all the bad luck possible - poor woman RIP

Score: 14

andy may

11:36am on 28/2/2013

for all the good people in society there are as many (if not more) of the kind of low-life that would do this. they may not get caught, but the comforter for the decent among us is that people like this generally do not lead happy lives. they will use some warped justification for their actions but the subconscious will gnaw away at them. good and positive things happen to good and positive people. this low-life will always be a low-life. happy days.

Score: 16
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Jasmin Louise

7:25pm on 28/2/2013

Andy, once again I'm in total agreement with you :)

Score: 6

Louisa Gieldon

10:10pm on 28/2/2013

Yep me too - when my old mum was really ill her home was burgled by a neighbour, who knew she was ill and had recently lost my dad. Also had my dad's car (she couldn't bear to get rid of it) vandalised outside the home, Her wedding and eternity ring were taken and dad had bought her the eternity ring when he knew he didn't have long to go. It made us all so sad!

Score: 8

sladey

11:38am on 28/2/2013

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shirley sutton

12:41pm on 28/2/2013

How awful they want to lock them up for a long time stealing from sick people in an hospice

Score: 10
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Louisa Gieldon

10:07pm on 28/2/2013

It would have been terribly distressing for the family too, coping as they already were with the death of a loved one.

Score: 6

Name witheld

12:48pm on 28/2/2013

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Dave Smith

1:08pm on 28/2/2013

Give it back anonymously you tramp, you messed up but it's not too late

Score: 15

Marilyn Francis

2:41pm on 28/2/2013

How low can some one get, stealing from a dying lady, they have been caring for. u will be caught. so give it back to the family. R.I.P. Mrs. Dalton. xx

Score: 11
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Louisa Gieldon

10:05pm on 28/2/2013

It may have been another patient or a visitor though Marilyn?

Score: 6

RayMcGlynn

3:02pm on 28/2/2013

Modern Britain I'm afraid !

Score: 8

johnny_1234

3:03pm on 28/2/2013

absolutely disgusting

Score: 11

Paul Croxton

3:03pm on 28/2/2013

I remember ny nan had 85 quid nicked out of her purse as she lay dying at hillingdon hospital and their attitude stank till I got the police involved they caught the thief via CCTV but the hospital only saw fit to transfer the thief not sack him I feel for this lady's family and hope they catch the lowlife ps CCTV is in all hospital and hospices as standard so the managers should hang their heads in shame oh I forgot they only care about profit not people

Score: 11
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Louisa Gieldon

10:03pm on 28/2/2013

It seems to be such a common story Paul - it's shocking! Cruel people to prey on the elderly and the sick. Could be other patients as well as staff i suppose?

Score: 7

John Mechelen

3:41pm on 28/2/2013

My grand mother had her ring stolen,in a catholic home,When i told the mother superior i was calling the police,yhey had another search and it was found.

Score: 7

Name witheld

3:58pm on 28/2/2013

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Score: 10
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andy may

6:08pm on 28/2/2013

muppet

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Louisa Gieldon

10:01pm on 28/2/2013

That's disgusting Bryan - you deserve to be taken off here for that. Shocking!

Score: 1

johnnydee23

4:06pm on 28/2/2013

This is one case when Shia law would be appropriate, chop off their hand.

Score: 7

movvi

5:37pm on 28/2/2013

Appalling. Her last hours would have been filled with anguish, which will trouble her relatives forever. The other stories here about similar happening to others are shocking - and suggest this is a lot more common than perhaps we thought. Clampdown and lessons in basic respect needed.

Score: 6

david

8:16pm on 28/2/2013

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Kath Thomson

10:58pm on 28/2/2013

My granny's wedding ring was stolen in a similar manner, so its not uncommon. Thankfully she wasn't wearing her engagement ring which I cherish... Thoughts to the family who've lost much more than a ring.

Score: 3

moonfleet

8:06am on 1/3/2013

Sadly an all too common story. My Aunt's wedding ring went "missing" when she died in hospital and was never found. Knowing this my mother always wore a base metal substitutes whenever she went to hospital. I would give that advice to anyone and never keep more than loose change with you either. It is a scandal which hospitals like to sweep under the carpet whenever possible,

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